ARGGGG!!! Any one else on here at thier wits end because of guys? I am!!!!
It's so annoying when people purposfuly ignore you. One of my guy friends made me a promis at the end of the school year, and then completly ignored me when school started again. In 3 weeks ive talked to him once! I m just like "WHAT?!?!?!"

And I told the guy i like that i like him... And then he started to talk about the girl HE likes. I was like 'WTF??'



Why? Any one have any ideas???

This behavour is so irational, so ilogial, I whant to slap them both and be like "WHAT IS WRONG WITH YOU?!?!?!?"


Im majorly confuzed.

That totally sucks!!! but i get it..... last year i became friends with this guy who was in almost all of my classes and we're both in band. We were the two favourite niners in the whole band so of course the older kids started to tease us and stuff... then kids in our grade heard the older kids teasing us and the rumours started. Now we barely speak anymore and we have all our classes together!!!!

OK so that basically happened to me when I was.......... 14?? yeah 14... I think cause I was going from freshman to sophmore and the guy I liked I FINALLY told that I had a crush on and then he told me he had a crush on me ... well we come back after summer and he decides that he wants to go to homecoming with one of my best friends

I was of course "heart broken" and I felt like no guys would ever like me but here is what I learned...... boys are boys until they decide to be something other then BOYS!!!!!... you will have to deal with it for another 10 years or more so don't get so down on your luck

the boy that I mentioned in my story ended up becoming one of my VERY VERY best friends my senior year because he helped me get past a lot of emotional bagage that I was carrying around due to something not related to him. He became my cuddle buddy that would wipe my tears away and tell me that boys suck and am grateful everyday that I had him with me to stay beside me and move on

Don't worry some are the WORST things known to the face of the earth (wow can't hear the bitterness that I might be carrying now can ya?) and some are the sweetest kindest most compationate wonderful people you will ever meet.

my only word of advise is Keep trugg'n you can't start you hatred of the male sex this early in life or it will screw you up for years to some. Just watch out for the frogs dressed in prince clothing. some of them might be poisonus!!

Megs

Don't you hate it when things only get worse?


There was a dance at school, wich my friend said he'd meet me at.
(Note that this is the guy that ignored me for three weeks)

Guess what? He went to the dance, but ignored me the whole time.

*Grabbs voodoo doll and stabs it with a light saber*

Well guess what? boys suck again!


my Bf just dumped me "for my own good"


yeah, right

Awwwww...that sucks! I would say that it'll get better but I'm not exactly sure (boys are wierd and constantly send mixed signals)!

Here's an awesome example: One of my best guys friends asked me to semi formal as a joke (he's in grade 12 i'm in grade 10). i said no because it was very obvious he was kidding. (i was in the process of helping him get up the nerve to ask the girl he's liked since grade 9)... then he gets mad at me for two weeks!

Now he's dating the said girl and has signed me up for 3 school clubs with him acting like nothing ever happened!(lets just add that i kinda have a slight crush on him but no one knows)


Honestly im not in a very forgiving mood when talking about guys, so my advice is that your probably better off without him right now

No kidding do guys send mixed signals!

My best friend was talking with him after he broke up with me ( i was not there, for obvius reasons) and she phoned me to make weekend plans. I was just about to hang up and hse said "oh by the way, I was talking to (insert name) after school.. and he's in worse shape then you. He want's to be with you Em, but he's scared you won't take him back"

Well... i did... And im glad i did... but im still wary

"fool me once shame on you , fool me twice shame on me" right?

I may be just a little bit late on this rant.. just a little.. but hey,

Tell them what you think.
Like just tell them, what have you got to lose?
If they're being dickheads and aren't obviously mature enough, they don't even deserve your honest opinion. But just tell them anyway.
It's better than bottling it up then having them hurt you and regretting that you said nothing.
Up front. I think that's what they like.
If you just want to ask.. WHAT THE FUCK IS WRONG WITH YOU? then go for it.

95% of my friends are guys.
Not including my boyfriend. (i feel so sorry for him, I always say the first thing that pops into my head.too upfront.... especially when I'm PMS'ing)
Girls are just sometimes .. yeah haha

Also, be a friend..yes a friend. If they stuff up dn't let it affect you.
ummm... if i was paying attention to all the boy conversation that they always rant on about..
Guys assume if they make it seem like they don't really like you that you will like them more.. something like that.
It's worked for some of them, so they think its bulletproof.
Challenge them, what guy doesn't like a challenge.